Question: Please Read my 3 problems, I want to share with you – I have none to tell. You kindly read it and please help me. I am breaking down gradually.
I am a girl of 26 yrs old having done my MCA two and half years ago. After that I am finding a job but whatever I got till now, it lost after 3 or 4 months for any reason (either I have to resign for the situation created or they left me).Now I lost again my job just one month ago and suffering from frustration for this repetitive events.
I am a devotee of Sri Ramakrishna from childhood and bringing up in a very religious environment of our home. My parents are also devotee to the god. I never ever face any problem in my life in Education and that’s why I believe whatever I try, if Thakur is with me I will get it. But ,from last 3 yrs I get only failure in every respect , I just cry near him but there is no light or no way.
I have a brother who is already married and living at Mumbai with his family, doing a good job. After his marriage, he is totally changed and his wife doesn’t like us and want to live detached and hence separated totally from us for 10 years.
PROBLEMS: 1. As I have none to help or stay with me in absence of parents, so in this situation, my parents tell me – “u never get a permanent job, so let get married because after our death nobody will be with you, and a girl alone cant live in our society safely”. My parents told that if I have a job then I need not to marry immediately coz then I can live independently. But if it is not then after their death what will be happen to me, as I am alone and they afraid of my brother’s attitude. But, from child hood, I think if I have to marry, I will think of it whether I do or not after being self sufficient. But the opposite situation creates. I am not mentally prepared and I won’t be happy. Please tell me, what should I do? How long I try for job? Thakur is not answering me .why? How can I come out from this problem?
2. I never ever believe in astrology. But for 3 yrs I am passing a very bad time in education, job in my career and some one told me to go to an astrologer. I then went to one but surprised that he told me everything right about my past. He did not know me but how is it possible? I don’t know? He told about my future also…. in which there are lots of trouble he predicts. Now I am afraid that he told past true… Then future must be true… Now, please tell me a) Is astrology true? Is everything predefined? Then effort is meaningless… And above all how can I remove all evils whatever in my life?
3. I had a very good friend whom I met 1 year ago, he behaved like a very good person, helping me many ways and caring me very much. In this way I began to believe him, depend him and gradually begin to like him. He came to our house and became one of our family members. But one day he told me a very bad proposal (which I can’t write), as I totally denied he left me and insulted me and did not contact any more. I really surprised with his attitude. He did a good acting with me for his bad motive, now I realize. First I like any body and he betrayed me. He was a fraud. Still I can’t forget him and think how one can act with my parents… Why all these happen to me (career, job, family, friends)? WHY?
Answer: Astrology is a science. There are some people who can predict the things ” past & future ” of person on the basis of their date & time of birth. But unfortunately there are more quacks than the real ones.
The predictions of the past may tally. But it is not necessary that the future predictions will also tally. The man is the maker of his own destiny. When we know certain things, we can take corrective measures. The self effort and Divine grace can alter the course of a person. This is how the man evolves. Simply to say that it is fate is only a weakness.
You have taken shelter under Sri Sri Thakur, Ma and Swamiji. What is the fear? Face the life boldly.
Prayer is a powerful weapon. Pray, pray, pray Ð you will succeed.
You are now 26 years old. So better you follow the advice of your parents and settle in life. One of the important “Mantra” for success is to “understand and adjust”, without compromising in the principles.