Question: 1. I have no job. I have been searching for job from 3 years. I did one job oriented course also for job. Though I am trying to get job very hardly, it’s not coming. Force is very more to me from my home. I cannot bare any pressure in my present situation. Job getting is solution. But how can I get job? 2. I helped my friend in his marriage issue selflessly. But while I was helping them I behaved closely to them. They completely misunderstood me and avoided me. Though I tried to convince them they misunderstood me a lot. This also I cannot bare. Everyday those thoughts are coming to my mind. How can I avoid those thoughts? Please give me solution to these problems.
Answer: You have written that you are trying to get job very “hardly”. Try “hard.” You will be successful. Only the degree will not count, you must have sufficient general knowledge, good English, and communication skills. Equip yourself and face the interviews with self-confidence.
Forget the episode regarding your friend and your helping him. If you have done the help selflessly, without any motives, their should be no problem in vanishing the thoughts. Still if you fail consult a suitable councilor.