Answer: My humble advice to you is

1.Take bland diet (Without Salt & species).

2. Don’t take pickles or any Garam Masala items.

3.You should give up such food that excites your nerves like garlic or onion.

4.Take only Satvik food.

5. Continue to chant Gayatri Mantra with meaning which you are doing now.

6. Offer intense prayers to make your mind pure.

7.Take some physical exercises daily like Yogasanas.

8. Keep good company.

9. Read good books which will elevate your mind, and cogitate on such good thoughts.

10. Don’t think opposite sex as an object of enjoyment, a manufacturing machine. Instead think that they are divine and they are also to be honored, respected and worshipped. In this connection I request you to read that portion from the life of Sri Ramakrishna who worshipped his wife as the Mother of the universe. Unless until you change your outlook you cannot raise in the Moral scale. Every woman is Shakti and she has divinity in her. Pay due respects to that divinity and hate it not.

May Divine Mother of the universe give you sufficient mental strength to overcome all temptations in your life!

Answer: I have read it carefully and noted the contents. Please do not lose heart. You are an educated young man having lot of energy. Please do not stop praying to Sri Ramakrishna and have strong faith in him. Have patience. Sri Ramakrishna knows what is best for you and your family. Surrender completely to Him and seek guidance from Him. I am sure He will do the best for you.
“It is people who are getting old, who talk of fate. It is the strong man, who stands up and says, ‘I will make my fate,’ says Swami Vivekananda.

Answer: You are right.
Please continue to practice the same as you are doing now. You will surely progress in the right path chosen by you.

Answer: Your observation in the book “They lived with God” is correct. It is only those who are of the level of an incarnation can recognize another incarnation, unless one reveals himself. In the modern days there is no depth of fake god-men which makes it all the more difficult to recognize. I feel if we have true devotion to the incarnation of the God as Sri Ramakrishna is sufficient for our spiritual progress, instead of our trying to judge an incarnation person.
Since you have come across this statement in the book of Swami Chetananandaji, if you desire you can send your question to him. His e-mail address is: vedantastl@prodigy.net.
The state of Nirvikalpa Samadhi cannot be expressed. It is a thing to be experienced. There may be some who have experienced. But it is difficult to say whether they will give expression to it, even if they do it, they do so only to another competent person who will be able to comprehend.
Under the circumstances it is more desirable for to do our spiritual practice. To the best of our ability as guided by our Guru & other scriptures.

Answer: Astrology is a science. There are some people who can predict the things ” past & future ” of person on the basis of their date & time of birth. But unfortunately there are more quacks than the real ones.
The predictions of the past may tally. But it is not necessary that the future predictions will also tally. The man is the maker of his own destiny. When we know certain things, we can take corrective measures. The self effort and Divine grace can alter the course of a person. This is how the man evolves. Simply to say that it is fate is only a weakness.
You have taken shelter under Sri Sri Thakur, Ma and Swamiji. What is the fear? Face the life boldly.
Prayer is a powerful weapon. Pray, pray, pray Ð you will succeed.
You are now 26 years old. So better you follow the advice of your parents and settle in life. One of the important “Mantra” for success is to “understand and adjust”, without compromising in the principles.

Answer: Please read the book The Sri Ramakrishna – The Great Master by Swami Saradananda (Apostle of Sri Ramakrishna) published by Sri Ramakrishna Math, Mylapore, Chennai – 600 004 Pp. 334-336. The relevant extract is appended.

            Extract from the Sri Ramakrishna - The Great Master by Swami Saradananda 
            Preparations for the worship of Shodasi:
            A little more than half of the month of Jyaishtha, B.E 1280 (A.D. May 25,1873) had elapsed.
            It was the new-moon day, the holy occasion for the worship of the Phalaharini Kalika Devi. It was the day of a special festival at the
            Dakshineswar temple. The Master had made special preparations on that day with a view to worshipping the Mother of the universe. These
            preparations, privately, in his own room at his desire. A wooden seat painted with Alimpana, the pigment of rice powder, for the Devi to
            sit on at the time of worship, had been placed to the right of the worshipper. The sun had set. The now-moon night, veiled in deep
            darkness, had alighted on the earth. Hriday, the Master's nephew, had to perform a special worship of the Devi in the temple. He had,
            therefore, helped as much as possible in the preparations for the Master's worship and had gone away to the temple. Having finished the
            nocturnal service and worship of Radha-Govinda, the first priest, Dinu, came to help the Master in the preparations. It was 9 p.m. when
            all the preparations for the mystery-worship of the Devi were completed. In the meantime, the Master had sent word to the Holy Mother to
            be present during-the worship. She came to the room and the Master started the worship. The Holy Mother worshipped as the Deity
            The articles of worship were purified by the Mantras and all the rites preliminary to the worship were finished. The Master beckoned to
            the Holy Mother to sit on the wooden seat decorated with the Alimpana. While witnessing the worship, the Holy Mother had already entered
            into a divine semi-conscious state. Not clearly conscious, therefore, of what she was doing, she like one charmed with Mantras, sat facing
            north to the right of the Master, who was seated with his face to the east. According to scriptural injunctions the Master sprinkled the
            Holy Mother repeatedly with the water purified by Mantras from the pitcher placed before him, then uttered the Mantra in her hearing and
            then recited the prayer: 
            "O Lady, O Mother Tripurasundari who art the controller of all powers, open the door to perfection! Purify her (the Holy Mother's) body
            and mind, manifest thyself in her and be beneficent."  
            Afterwards the Master performed the Nyasa of the Mantras in the Holy Mother's person according to the injunctions of the Sastras, and
            worshipped her with the sixteen articles, as the Devi Herself. He then offered food and put a part of it into her mouth with his own hand.
            The Holy Mother lost normal consciousness and went into Samadhi. The Master too, uttering Mantras in the semi-conscious state, entered
            into complete Samadhi. The worshipper in Samadhi became perfectly identified and united with the Devi in Samadhi. 
            A long time passed. The second quarter of the night was over and the third had far advanced, when the Master, whose delight was, only in
            the Self, showed a little sign of regaining normal consciousness. Returning to the semi-conscious state again, he offered himself to the
            Devi. He now gave away for ever at the lotus feet of the Devi his all -- the results of his Sadhanas, his rosary etc.-- along with his
            self, and saluted her, uttering the Mantras: 
            "O Thou, the auspiciousness of all auspicious things! O door of all actions! O refuge! O the three-eyed One! O the fair complexioned
            spouse of Siva! O Narayani! I bow down to Thee, I bow down to thee! " 
            The worship was at an end.1 The Master's Sadhana reached its culmination with the worship of the Ruler of the universe, the Divine Mother
            in the body of a woman, the embodiment of spiritual knowledge itself. The god-man attained perfection in all respects.